The orgasm will soon become a thing of the past and sexual gratification will be seeked openly through other means to an end.
We are all educated on ‘traditional’ sex and we have all experienced its glory but what was once a formal traditionalist performance has become a crazed, drug fuelled, alcohol induced, wild swinging, bondage, disciplined, mistress, painful, lust and empowering stage show. Whatever happened to two people sharing a passionate, sexual and precious moment discovering one another’s pleasures ? We are spoilt with a number of rabbits, dildos, strap-ons and miscellaneous sex toys so I guess that orgasms have become a thing of the past.
I was once friends with a German lesbian who became trapped by the lesbian stigma of not wanting children, basing her attraction purely on physical chemistry, ticking the financial box and wanting to have her own time apart. A cold and heartless relationship that would find herself and her partner sleeping under the same roof but in separate bedrooms. A dog would compensate for the lack of children but then again that was a matter to be discussed. She fell hard into the world of lesbianism, engulfed by the criteria of what is considered to be the perfect relationship in the eyes of the LGBT society. She decided to swerve from what was seen as societal acceptance and jumped feet first into the world of sexual fantasy and desire that would go beyond some of our wildest dreams.
For legal reasons, let’s call her Mika. Mika is a successful trader for an American company based in Liverpool Street. She has an income of £150,000 + and lives alone in a rented 1 bedroom penthouse in south London. Life has been generous to her in the department of finances. But, money cannot buy romantic happiness. She was left deserted and despaired by what was on offer in London when in actual fact London wasn’t the issue, she was. She would spent her constant Mika quote “I know what I am worth”. Clearly she wasn’t worth much since every decent woman she would like could not wait to get at away fast enough. All that matter to Mika was what really counted on the outside and in the bank account. She was a selfish, lust induced, financially greedy and tight individual who believed GOD had created her in the image of Eve; in other words, she couldn’t understand how she was still single when she resembled the essence of perfectness. Having spent years on the dating downfall, she decided to focus on her sexual exploration and exploring she did ! From having no sex she joined a dominatrix and submissive underground society that was composed of people of all sorts from bankers to sales assistants. She would spend three nights a week meeting her new sex friends at a pub in Farringdon and two Saturdays a month at a sordid sex session/party in a secret location. She had become so obsessed with sex that it had become her new virtual girlfriend. She would tell me of her sex stories as if they were tales of victory and bravery with a smile that would leave her feeling proud of her dark secret as she began plunging into the world of sexual sadomasochism.
Year after year I would listen to her new tales and found that she was moving with time while it was I that had unconsciously refused the commodity of change. Today’s sexual world has boiled down to everything but the orgasm. The orgasm is now the Ford Capri of the 1980’s and if you are not willing to accept the sexual circus presented to us on a plate these days then we are to accept sacrifices and limited choices in finding a partner.