Trans Day Of Remembrance – we must not forget!
Today, the world marks Trans Day of Remembrance (TDOR) —a poignant occasion to honour the memory of trans and gender-diverse individuals whose lives have been tragically cut short by violence and hate. The numbers released this year are heartbreaking: at least 350 trans people were killed globally in 2024, with many more likely unreported.
Behind these statistics lie real people—friends, family members, partners, and colleagues—whose lives were filled with dreams, talents, and aspirations. Today, we remember them not as numbers but as cherished souls taken far too soon.
A Grim Reality
The findings from Transrespect versus Transphobia Worldwide remind us that violence against the trans community remains a global epidemic. Most victims were trans women of colour, often in countries with systemic inequalities and lacking protective laws. This speaks volumes about the intersecting challenges of racism, transphobia, and misogyny.
Closer to home, the UK’s trans community faces its own struggles. Hate crimes against transgender people have surged, according to recent statistics, painting a grim picture for those seeking safety and acceptance. It’s clear, darlings, that we’ve got some work to do.
Transphobia Isn’t Just a “Them” Problem—It’s an Us Problem
Let’s not mince words here: Transphobia doesn’t exist in a vacuum. From harmful legislation and public discourse to casual bigotry in pubs or on social media, it’s all part of a culture that emboldens violence. If you’re standing by and tutting quietly, babes, you’re part of the problem.
Being an ally means more than slapping a rainbow on your socials. It’s about calling out transphobia when you see it, amplifying trans voices, and educating yourself about their lived experiences.
Celebrating Resilience and Joy
While TDOR is a sombre occasion, it’s also an opportunity to celebrate the incredible resilience and strength of the trans community. Despite everything, trans people continue to thrive, create, and inspire. From smashing glass ceilings to creating art that makes the heart sing, trans individuals are shaping the world in ways that deserve recognition and celebration.
As allies, we can—and must—do more to uplift and support trans lives, not just in November but every single day.
What You Can Do
Here’s how you can make a difference:
1. Educate Yourself – Ignorance is no excuse. Read books, listen to podcasts, and follow trans creators online.
2. Donate to Trans-Led Charities – Support organisations doing the work on the ground, like Mermaids UK, Gendered Intelligence, or Stonewall’s trans campaigns.
3. Show Up – Attend marches, rallies, and vigils. Your presence matters.
4. Speak Out – Challenge transphobia, even when it’s uncomfortable. Silence is complicity.
5. Vote Wisely – Use your voice at the ballot box to support policies that protect LGBTQ+ rights.
Remember Their Names
Today isn’t just a day to mourn; it’s a day to act. Each name on this year’s list represents a life that should have been celebrated, not mourned. As we light candles and reflect, let’s channel our grief into determination.
It’s 2024, loves. Trans rights are human rights, and it’s high time the world caught up.
In Solidarity, Always!
The fight isn’t over, but together, we can create a future where TDOR becomes a day of remembrance *without new names to add*. Let’s make that vision a reality. 🌈
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