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PART 1 – Lesbian dating: pull your hair out it’s a nightmare
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PART 1 – Lesbian dating: pull your hair out it’s a nightmare

A labyrinth with no way out. So don’t mind the thorns sticking out of the bushes because they are not as painful as the dates.   When it is time for us ladies to date, where do we go ? online. The bars are crowded with women who are mostly looking  for casual hookups so the likes of Plenty of Fish, Wapa, She, Her and many other apps and online platforms offer us a way out. Though we are spoilt for choice, what the hell is actually lingering on those media platforms ? From men posing as women, from couples looking for a third party, from transvestites thinking that any lesbian could not refuse, from women catfishing and from everyone with a secret agenda we are royaly arse fucked. Lesbian dating in the year 2020 is nothing short of catching a shooting star. Good luck because you ...
The 30 year old child: Why do Lesbians not mature with time ?
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The 30 year old child: Why do Lesbians not mature with time ?

We are selfish, desire driven, drama queen, lust motivated women who are destroying our very own environment by opening the door to continuous and poisonous drama.    Have you ever found yourself at a Lesbian soiree and come to the conclusion that they all live at home, no potential career, no class and no general ambition unless it’s to indulge in drama. Lesbians would make great drama script writers but instead they opt for the minimal that life has to offer. Why are we not prone to bettering ourselves ? Is working as a waitress and in sales all we are worthy of complying to ? Any job is an honest job but when we have been given the opportunities so many seek why do we conform to being unambitious individuals ? If you walk into She bar you will mostly find women who have opted...
Taking Pride in educating children
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Taking Pride in educating children

The only way to combat homophobia is by taking pride in educating our children in the fight for equality. I did not have a strong gay influence growing up, I was uneducated about many issues regarding queer history; and in my opinion, many essential teachings on LGBTQ+ history. Until secondary school I did not know that it was possible (let alone allowed) for the same sex to be in love, in my opinion society had already installed in me that this behaviour was unacceptable, meaning I kept my own sexuality a secret, tried to hide it. I was in no way ashamed, but instead scared of the reaction it would create. Society telling me that no gay person or LGBTQ+ allies would be welcome with open arms. Looking back, I'm curious as to how I would be different had I been informed and educated abo...
THE SEXPERT: Let’s Speak Lesbianese
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THE SEXPERT: Let’s Speak Lesbianese

Lesbian sex isn't defined by toys but by our natural instinct and given equipment: fingers work just as well as dildos.    What makes so many fantasise about lesbian sex ?  We are the epidemie for every straight man and straight woman’s sexual fantasy that all men want a threesome with two women and straight women actively seek a lesbian experience. Do we let off some secret sexual musk that strokes your g-spot ? We all know far too well that for thousands of years, lesbian sex has been portrayed through literature and art - as well as practiced in ancient Greece and Rome. Even Cleopatra was one to indulge in the forbidden fruit. It is clear that lesbians are perceived as a sex symbol. I believe that this is the only reason why lesbians are more accepted in society then gay ...
SEX TOY OF THE MONTH: THE DOUBLE PLEASER
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SEX TOY OF THE MONTH: THE DOUBLE PLEASER

We must not be ashamed of exploring our sexuality. We have all endured the strap-on phase. But this is the strap-on of the century ! At 6 inches long and only 5 inches of insertable pleasure it strikes a woman’s G-spot just right. I have spent years searching for the Holy Grail of toys and here she is ! At £24.99  with free delivery Harmony have created the perfect gift either for you or your partner. The dildo is not too soft but firm enough to not slip out or snap when carrying out certain positions. We know far too well of those awkward moments when the dildo slips out aggressively, hurting our vaginas and causing us to no longer want to persevere. This strap-on initially frightened me as do most sex toys but I cannot keep running away. Without my partner knowing, I took one fo...
The Transexual Heroine: from suicide to hope
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The Transexual Heroine: from suicide to hope

With a handful of pills and a bottle of vodka, she was moments away from ending her life. My opinions are mostly not appreciated within the community. I for one, shall not be dictated to think and to believe a certain way. The transgender movement is mostly formulated based on a fashion statement or used to drive and push a specific agenda. The transgender community does not include transexuals and post ops. The transgender community is one of fiction whereby men and women randomly chose days on which they will either dress a certain way and behave in a certain manner. The issue with this movement is that it is costing the taxpayer a little fortune in unnecessary bills such as the re-issuing of public toilets, signs, incomprehensible legal aid etc. This little fortune could be spe...
The snake in the Garden of Eden: Married women lurking behind the lesbian scenes
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The snake in the Garden of Eden: Married women lurking behind the lesbian scenes

At first glance, you will notice a well dressed woman somewhat unsettled, leaning against the bar with a glass of wine. Though she finds herself within a female surrounding, her lack of the unexplainable floats above her head. We can immediately suss out that she’s a married woman. We all love to have a bite of the forbidden fruit but is this married woman the snake in the Garden of Eden ? I needed first insight into this world and decided to interview a friend who journeyed through this unfortunate experience. Gia is a passionate and caring individual who has a bomb of loving emotions waiting to explode inside her. She’s the type of woman who would put her coat over a puddle so that you wouldn’t have to skip on to the pavement. She’s been single for some time and it is not by ...
Agenda pushing ‘gender dysphoria’ is a mental health illness
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Agenda pushing ‘gender dysphoria’ is a mental health illness

Let’s get one thing straight ! no pronouns will cure gender dysphoria. It is a mental health illness which can be regulated with therapy. The denial of therapy being the key success to regulation is simply absurd while the belief that labels and pronouns ‘they’ and ‘them’ are of great assistance. Such allegation parallels that of ‘all schizophrenics can be treated by admitting that the hallucinations are real’. When someone suffers from a mental health illness, the first point is to find the source of the problem. The definition of gender dysphoria by the NHS is as follows ‘a condition where a person experiences discomfort or distress because there's a mismatch between their biological sex and gender identity’. It's sometimes known as gender incongruence.’ In other words, to cure gender in...
PrEP – What you need is a correct information – Pt.2
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PrEP – What you need is a correct information – Pt.2

Life is too short to have no care for you! Our journey into the world of PrEP continues with the help of Pietro, an expert at the Milan Checkpoint PrEP counter. We had left ourselves in Pt.1 with many questions and answers and now let's continue from here. What is its correct use for a prophylaxis that works? For PrEP to work, correct adherence is required, i.e.: taking suggested doses according to the established schedule, otherwise, the concentration of the drug in your mucous membranes is not sufficient to give effective protection from HIV. Depending on personal needs and lifestyles, it is possible to take PrEP every day, or only in view of sexual intercourse, with different dosages. Over time, it is possible to change the intake timing, or even stop the cure for a period of tim...
A Gentleman Jack, the answer to lesbian relationships
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A Gentleman Jack, the answer to lesbian relationships

Love has become a misconception in the 21st century as ‘having to marry the right sort of person’.   What is the right sort of person ? Financially secured, come from a good family, well mannered and presented, career ambitious, successful and all round what society perceives as perfection. In the lesbian community, there are far too many of us that settle for second best because we feel that what we are looking for does not exist. What most of us seek is a gentleman jack. A woman who would catch us when we fall and would provide the emotional support one needs. The lesbian bars are filled with ill mannered, poorly dressed and behaved women. Women who are far too concerned about the drama and who they are going to jump into bed with next. Whatever happened to desiring what we act...
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