A-sexuals most probably know the meaning of true love more than the rest of us since we require physical and sexual attraction. It’s all about the soul connection.
I once knew of an a-sexual lesbian who would actively chat up women but when it came to sealing the deed she was not too keen. She would then go on to complain about how they don’t want to be in a relationship with her as she doesn’t wish to participate in sexual activity. Evidently, you cannot blame the women who have been misled by my ex-friend who failed to mention that she was a-sexual. You cannot force someone to give up what is naturally embedded in them just to please you. People are programmed in many different ways and we must accept others’ individualities. My ex-friend who for the sake of anonymity I will name Jamie.
Jamie is 5’5, slim built, boyish figure, boyish mannerisms and dresses like a young man with her manly t-shirts, slim fit trousers and reebok men department trainers. She honestly believes she’s God’s gift and therefore does not lack confidence. She has short dark hair with a fringe that she straightens and greases to the side of her face, not revealing much of her features. She’s the type of woman that believes that every woman either envies her or is after her heart. To top it all off she drives a blacked out window car with a number plate that reads T0P B0Y9. She dates the common pretty girls who have more makeup on their face then selfridges cares to store. She does have a little success but her relationships usually come to an end within 2 months due to Jamie not wanting to have sexual intercourse. Understandably, it is no surprise that she cannot find her true love if she is looking for non a-sexual women. She despairs that she will finish life alone and has prepared herself for not finding a partner that would complete her. It is sad to see someone who has so much potential and much to offer believe that she will grow old alone while watching those around her find their true happiness. As much as I resented her for her ways, everyone deserves happiness.
We do not hear much about the a-sexual community and I wonder how many represent that category. I believe more should be done for them to have their own social meet-ups so that they can find like minded people. A-sexuality is literally beautiful because they fall in love with the person as opposed to physical or sexual attraction. They are attracted to who you are deep down inside and it is what many of us wish others would see within us. I believe it to be true love with no taring of sexual desire and lust. It is pure in its form and those who are a-sexual are more lucky than us since they most probably know the meaning of true love.
