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The A-sexual Lesbian: women want sex, get over it !

30Jun

By Roberta MooreNo Comments

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The A-sexual Lesbian: women want sex, get over it !

A-sexuals most probably know the meaning of true love more than the rest of us since we require physical and sexual attraction. It's all about the soul connection. I once knew of an a-sexual lesbian who would actively chat up women but when it came to sealing the deed she was not too keen. She would then go on to complain about how they don’t want to be in a relationship with her as she doesn’t wish to participate in sexual activity. Evidently, you cannot blame the women who have been misled by my ex-friend who failed to mention that she was a-sexual. You cannot force someone to give up what is naturally embedded in them just to please you. People are programmed in many different ways and we must accept others' individualities. My ex-friend who for the sake of anonymity I will...

Part 2 – Lesbian dating: pull your hair out it’s a nightmare

26Jun

By Roberta MooreNo Comments

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Part 2 – Lesbian dating: pull your hair out it’s a nightmare

I was in a fit of rage as to why catfish feel they are justified by misleading people ! In my previous article I share my experience of having been catfished by a man. It doesn’t quite end there and unfortunately I have another similar encounter but with a twist. If only I was Julia Roberts in the film Notting Hill but being swept off my feet by a female version of Hugh Grant. This time I took extra precautions in making sure that the person I was speaking to on the other end of the phone was in actual fact a woman. Little did I know, I was about to face another extraordinary bizarre encounter. I decided to try out the dating site Plenty of Fish. There was even more choice and it felt like being a 5 year old in a free to grab sweet shop. Devouring profile afte...

PART 1 – Lesbian dating: pull your hair out it’s a nightmare

24Jun

By Roberta MooreNo Comments

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PART 1 – Lesbian dating: pull your hair out it’s a nightmare

A labyrinth with no way out. So don’t mind the thorns sticking out of the bushes because they are not as painful as the dates. When it is time for us ladies to date, where do we go ? online. The bars are crowded with women who are mostly looking for casual hookups so the likes of Plenty of Fish, Wapa, She, Her and many other apps and online platforms offer us a way out. Though we are spoilt for choice, what the hell is actually lingering on those media platforms ? From men posing as women, from couples looking for a third party, from transvestites thinking that any lesbian could not refuse, from women catfishing and from everyone with a secret agenda we are royaly arse fucked. Lesbian dating in the year 2020 is nothing short of catching a shooting star. Good luck because you ...

18Jun

By rebeccaNo Comments

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Film recommendation: Moffie

This beautifully made, powerful drama set in apartheid-era South Africa about a young gay man doing military service addresses the dangers of binary thinking, at personal and national levels. This film is set in the early 1980s in South Africa, when the minority white government was facing conflict on the southern Angolan border while battling the threat of communism and its terror of an uprising by the majority black population. Like all young men over 16, Nicholas must complete two years of compulsory military service to defend the apartheid regime. We follow him during his brutal training and into battle. It is initially unclear whether Nicholas is gay, or just cut from softer cloth than many of his contemporaries. But when a flicker of understanding between him and the rebellious...

The 30 year old child: Why do Lesbians not mature with time ?

17Jun

By Roberta MooreNo Comments

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The 30 year old child: Why do Lesbians not mature with time ?

We are selfish, desire driven, drama queen, lust motivated women who are destroying our very own environment by opening the door to continuous and poisonous drama. Have you ever found yourself at a Lesbian soiree and come to the conclusion that they all live at home, no potential career, no class and no general ambition unless it’s to indulge in drama. Lesbians would make great drama script writers but instead they opt for the minimal that life has to offer. Why are we not prone to bettering ourselves ? Is working as a waitress and in sales all we are worthy of complying to ? Any job is an honest job but when we have been given the opportunities so many seek why do we conform to being unambitious individuals ? If you walk into She bar you will mostly find women who have opted...

17Jun

By alcoachNo Comments

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Gay people hating gay people

The last thing you need in life is hate. So stay away from haters, especially if they're gay. Some gay people think gay people suck. They feel superior and entitled because even though they are gay, they are not like other gay guys. The others are just unkind, promiscuous sluts. Many gay men lead an intensively active sex life. Many others don't. Reportedly, more than 70% of EU homosexual men have a job that keeps them busy pretty much all day long, Mondays through Fridays. This is enough to understand that not all of us can spend our days thinking of or having sex 24/7. And even though most of us gay people do not have families with children to take care of or look after, it doesn't mean we don't have a life with our responsibilities, duties, and deadlines to meet. Some gay men fee...

15Jun

By Roberta MooreNo Comments

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THE SEXPERT: Let’s Speak Lesbianese

Lesbian sex isn't defined by toys but by our natural instinct and given equipment: fingers work just as well as dildos. What makes so many fantasise about lesbian sex ? We are the epidemie for every straight man and straight woman’s sexual fantasy that all men want a threesome with two women and straight women actively seek a lesbian experience. Do we let off some secret sexual musk that strokes your g-spot ? We all know far too well that for thousands of years, lesbian sex has been portrayed through literature and art - as well as practiced in ancient Greece and Rome. Even Cleopatra was one to indulge in the forbidden fruit. It is clear that lesbians are perceived as a sex symbol. I believe that this is the only reason why lesbians are more accepted in society then gay ...

SEX TOY OF THE MONTH: THE DOUBLE PLEASER

30May

By Roberta MooreNo Comments

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SEX TOY OF THE MONTH: THE DOUBLE PLEASER

We must not be ashamed of exploring our sexuality. We have all endured the strap-on phase. But this is the strap-on of the century ! At 6 inches long and only 5 inches of insertable pleasure it strikes a woman’s G-spot just right. I have spent years searching for the Holy Grail of toys and here she is ! At £24.99 with free delivery Harmony have created the perfect gift either for you or your partner. The dildo is not too soft but firm enough to not slip out or snap when carrying out certain positions. We know far too well of those awkward moments when the dildo slips out aggressively, hurting our vaginas and causing us to no longer want to persevere. This strap-on initially frightened me as do most sex toys but I cannot keep running away. Without my partner knowing, I took one fo...

The Transexual Heroine: from suicide to hope

27May

By Roberta MooreNo Comments

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The Transexual Heroine: from suicide to hope

With a handful of pills and a bottle of vodka, she was moments away from ending her life. My opinions are mostly not appreciated within the community. I for one, shall not be dictated to think and to believe a certain way. The transgender movement is mostly formulated based on a fashion statement or used to drive and push a specific agenda. The transgender community does not include transexuals and post ops. The transgender community is one of fiction whereby men and women randomly chose days on which they will either dress a certain way and behave in a certain manner. The issue with this movement is that it is costing the taxpayer a little fortune in unnecessary bills such as the re-issuing of public toilets, signs, incomprehensible legal aid etc. This little fortune could be spent on sa...

The library is now open, with Mrs. Kasha Davis’ Drag Story Time LIVE

21May

By paulNo Comments

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The library is now open, with Mrs. Kasha Davis’ Drag Story Time LIVE

RuPaul’s Drag Race alumnus Mrs. Kasha Davis has spent her quarantine entertaining fans, families and children with her bi-weekly online show Drag Story Time LIVE with MKD. Everyone’s favourite international housewife-sensation can be seen every Sunday and Wednesday (12:00 EST) looking fabulous in her suburban, fairy tale-telling extravaganza. The show is aimed at children of all ages and their families, with Mrs. Davis positioning herself as campy like Pee Wee Herman with the honestly of Mr. Roger – in a dress. Kasha says: “I love doing Story Time because I’m providing something special for children and their parents that was not available when I was a child." ‘Nay sayers will say Drag Story Time LIVE is pushing a “gay agenda” on children but I believe if they sit and listen,...